- Caroline Marcah says men usually cheat without emotional involvement, making it easier for relationships to recover.
- She argues women cheat only after mentally, physically, and emotionally detaching from the relationship.
- Her remarks highlight a common belief that men receive more second chances after adultery than women.
Media personality Caroline Marcah has stirred conversation online after sharing her views on adultery and why relationships respond differently depending on who cheats.

Marcah explained that, in her opinion, men often approach extra-marital affairs without emotional attachment.
“What I think is that men don’t put emotions in the extra marital affairs because it’s just minutes. They don’t put emotions in the extra marital affairs. That’s why sometimes you look at a woman a man has cheated with and then look at his wife and you wonder what was upon him.”
She added that, unlike men, women cheat after deep internal conflict and emotional detachment from the relationship.
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“For women, by the time we cheat, we have thought about it mentally, physically and emotionally and have agreed with what we are going to do and it all checks out. By the time a woman cheats, she’s already gone from the relationship.”
According to Marcah, this is why rebuilding a relationship after a woman cheats is often harder:
“That is why a relationship is difficult to rebuild when a woman cheats… but when a man does, it can be amended.”
Her comments reflect a common belief among people in relationships — that society is more forgiving when men commit adultery, while women are judged more harshly and relationships tend to end faster when the woman is the one who strays.


